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Monday, March 23, 2009


GUILT


what does guilt mean to you?!

well, i wasnt feeling it, but i felt the pinch that person was feeling.
i swear sia!
sumpah, tk tipu.
the body language gave it away laa.


so, i wiki-ed!


Guilt is a cognitive or an emotional experience that occurs when a person realizes or believes - whether justified or not - that he or she has violated a moral standard, and is responsible for that violation.[1] It is closely related to the concept of remorse.

In psychology, as well as in ordinary language, guilt is an affective state in which one experiences conflict at having done something that one believes one should not have done (or conversely, having not done something one believes one should have done). It gives rise to a feeling which does not go away easily, driven by 'conscience'. Sigmund Freud described this as the result of a struggle between the ego and the superego parental imprinting. Freud, an atheist, rejected the role of God as punisher in times of illness or rewarder in time of wellness. While removing one source of guilt from patients, he ironically added another. This was the unconscious force within the individual that may contribute to illness and also to the kind of so called accident that, until then had been attributed to God's will or simply bad luck. Today, as a result of Freud's views, even the victim of someone else's accident or bad luck may be offered criticism rather than comfort. The theory is that the victim may be at fault for having attracted the other person's hostility.[2] Guilt and its causes, merits, and demerits are common themes in psychology and psychiatry. It is often associated with anxiety, and sometimes depression. The philosopher Martin Buber underlined the difference between the Freudian notion of guilt, based on internal conflicts, and existential guilt, based on actual harm done to others.[3]


i was like, woooo,
super extensive laa.!

anyways, it ok.
as long i aint the one feeling it, right?!
=)

and, that particular someone is a repeat offender of what the person is doing ah.
excuse ah, please kkick that habit of yours!
thanks you, very nice.


how i know?
singapore is oh-so small laa!


and and, in a few hours, im gonna watch SLUMGOG MILLIONAIRE!!
*screams!*

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